Everything You Need To Know About Geminis

Mercury, the ruler of Gemini, is the planet of communication, language, and travel. Mercury is named for the only Roman god who could travel freely between the underworld and the heavens, explaining Gemini's desire to maneuver between realms, chat with all kinds of folks, and run after their curiosities.

Gemini is represented by two people talking back and forth (the twins) in constant conversation, further reinforcing that this is a social sign with an affinity for gossip and a strong need for mental and physical stimulation. As an air sign, Gemini is also associated with the mind and knowledge.

Geminis form connections through dialogue, communication, debate, and questions. Like the ever-curious child constantly asking Why?, Geminis like to pick things apart to understand them. They're also verbal wizards, tending to have a knack for relating to people through language and maneuvering seamlessly between social spheres.

In the Northern Hemisphere, Gemini season happens when spring is turning to summer. It's a transitional period, and this is a movable, flexible sign that likes to multitask.

An opportunity for growth for our Gemini friends includes watching what they say—and to whom they say it. Gemini's desire to spread the word can get them into trouble, and this sign is often stereotyped as being gossipy and flirty. Learning what information is theirs to tell and what is better kept under wraps is a lifelong challenge for this sign. 

Geminis can also benefit from slowing down, staying present, and getting grounded. As a Mercury-ruled air sign that's constantly on the move, Gemini can sometimes miss the slow and simple pleasures that one notices by simply being. 

For the sign of the twins, relationships and love need to be exciting, stimulating, and constantly fresh.

Unlike Taurus, the sign preceding the twins, Gemini is more likely to be interested in polyamory. That's not to say that Geminis can't mate for the long haul. However, they have a deep need for newness, socializing, and excitement in all aspects of life—relationships included.

Life with a Gemini is rarely dull. Above all, a partnership (monogamous or not) needs to challenge Gemini mentally. Geminis like to feel that they can talk to their partners about anything and everything.

The way to a Gemini's heart is through the mind: Impress a Gemini with your hot take on the latest trends, your quick wit, and your ability to transition seamlessly between conversation topics.

Geminis are known to be adventurous in the bedroom, and their airy nature means that dirty talk, sexting, and role-playing are likely to be in their wheelhouse.

As the quintessential multitasker of the zodiac, Gemini is easily bored. Typically, they seek out lots of friends from many different circles. The freedom to roam between social networks is a must for this sign.

Since they like to move between realms, the typical Gem is likely to have several streams of income—often from gigs that involve journalism, the arts, travel, or astrology. (Mercury, Gemini's ruler, is the ruler of astrology itself!)

A job with some level of socializing is typically necessary for a Gemini. Whether working with clients one-on-one or in larger groups as a community organizer, Gemini likes to get out into the world and learn about people.

If a Gemini does have a steady 9-to-5 job, they're likely the one in the office who's always mixing things up by planning parties, gossiping at the watering hole, and surprising the staff with treats. 

Geminis tend to have less in common with water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces). While water signs crave emotional connection and comfort, Geminis need movement and stimulation.